Are Ladies Really First - JEWISH INTIMACY (39)

What kind of children will you produce? Will they be masculine male or females? Will they be different than the many problematic ones of the ADHD generation the followed the sexual revolution? What does this all have to do with who climaxes first? These are some of the question we'll be able to learn together from the Ramban's Iggeret HaKodesh in this life, marriage and eternity changing Jewish Intimacy series. “Iggeret HaKodesh” The Holy Letter of the Ramban: https://amzn.to/429g1tc As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases. BUILD WITH US (Who Is BeEzrat HaShem Inc) http://www.BHYESHIVA.com BeEzrat HaShem YESHIVA & BEIT MUSSAR BUILDING BUILD A JEWISH COMMUNITY THAT WILL CHANGE THE WORLD 0:00:00 Introduction 0:08:08 Prerequisites for Holiness 0:09:07 Consequences: Everything Comes at a Price 0:13:21 Anticipating End Results Too Quickly 0:21:59 Prerequisites: Pray Beforehand, Checking Oneself, Willing Wife 0:27:49 Are Ladies Really First? 0:30:26 Seed Order Emission Determines Gender (Nid. 31a to Lev. 12:2) 0:31:42 Happy is He Whose Children are Males, and Woe to Him Whose Children are Females (Kid. 82b) 0:31:44 Wicked Monster Alfred Kinsey & Consequences 0:40:23 Ramban's Sources in The Torah 0:42:31 Seed Order Emission Determines Gender (cont.) 0:43:54 Holy vs Unholy Marriage & Quality of the Children 0:49:49 Why are Your Children Exceedingly Beautiful? (Ned. 20b) 0:51:35 Ramban's Secret to Spiritual Success 0:54:55 You Shall Not Converse Excessively with a Woman, Because You May Ultimately Come to Lewdness (Ned. 20a) 0:58:26 Whoever Looks at Women Will Ultimately Come to Sin (Ned. 20a) 0:59:56 Whoever Gazes at the Heel of a Woman, Will Have Children Who are Not of Good Character (Ned. 20a) 1:00:35 Why are There Lame People? (Ned. 20a) 1:03:08 Why are There Mute People? (Ned. 20a) 1:04:32 Why are There People Who are Mute & Deaf? (Ned. 20a) 1:05:26 Why are There Blind People? (Ned. 20a) 1:05:56 Why are Your Children Exceedingly Beautiful? (cont.) 1:09:04 Why is there No Beracha Over Act of Intimacy? (R. Elimelech Lizhensk) 1:12:36 How the Holy Sages Elevated Themselves 1:19:01 Just Because It's Permissible Doesn't Mean It Should Be Done 1:19:48 Forbidden to Think of Other Women 1:21:46 Children of Fear, Children of a Forced Woman, Children of a Hated Woman 1:23:54 Children of an Excommunicated Man, Children of an Exchanged Woman 1:24:44 Children of Strife, Children of Drunkenness 1:25:18 Children of a Woman Who Has Been Divorced in the Mind of Her Husband 1:25:32 Children of Mingling, Children of a Brazen Woman, Children of a Sleeping Woman (Maseches Kallah) 1:26:45 Guf: Chamber in heaven Where Neshamot Derive From (Different Levels) 1:28:01 "Hashem Shall Make War for You, and You Shall Remain Silent" (Ex. 14 v. 14) 1:29:47 Ten Levels of Believers (Chovos Halevavos) 1:30:24 (1) Reject Torah, Misled by Ignorance & Base Desires 1:31:16 (2) Reject Reward & Punishment 1:33:01 (3) Believe Reward & Punishment Only in This World 1:34:03 (4) Religious Only on the Outside 1:36:04 (5) Self-Interest 1:37:37 (6) All They Want is This World 1:39:11 (7) Only for Sake of Reward 1:40:32 (8) Only for Sake of Avoiding Punishment 1:41:59 (9) Not Careful By Putting Themselves in Harm's Way 1:43:59 Wrong Associations Can Cost Everything 1:49:07 (10) Level of Prophets & Tzadikim 1:50:05 Conclusion 1:55:26 Be'Ezrat Hashem: Make Eternal Investments #Intimacy #Women #judaism #jewish #rabbiyaronreuven #Torah #jewishintimacy