Special Guest: Rabbi Shais Taub visits the crisis center

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00:00 – Common Myths About Twisted Parenting 01:00 – Letter from Daas Torah is Required 02:00 – Only for Extreme, Life-Threatening Cases 03:00 – We Are Not Pro-Drugs – We Save Kids Without Rehab 04:45 – Our Parents Are Focused on Acceptance, Not Rejection 05:50 – What is Empathy and Can It Be Faked? 07:45 – Sympathy vs. Empathy – A Key Distinction 09:00 – How to Cultivate Genuine Empathy (Real Practice Tip) 11:30 – “Tell Me What Hurts Me” – Story from Drunks with a Lesson 13:45 – When Kids Tell You They’re Hurting – Believe Them 17:30 – The Damage of Not Believing Your Child 19:30 – Punishment vs. Hug: When in Doubt, Love Wins 21:00 – Tanya: Be Humble Before Everyone – Even Those 'Below' You 23:00 – Don’t Judge Results – Judge Struggle and Effort 24:45 – When a GED Means More Than a Diploma 29:00 – How to Find What’s Admirable in Your Child 30:00 – Love vs. Nachas: They're Not the Same Thing 33:00 – Everyone Wants to Be Valued – Even If They Can't Accept It 35:00 – The 'Wonder Rebbe' – Controlling Yourself First 38:30 – How to Feel Nachas Even When Your Child Can’t Feel It 40:00 – The Core of the Crisis: Not Religion, But Trauma 42:00 – Context is Everything – Why Our Kids Deserve Applause 43:45 – The Power of Saying 'I Like You' – Not Just 'I Love You' 45:00 – Are These Kids Broken? No – They Are Extra Sensitive 47:30 – The Child Who Writes Poetry in the Back of the Class 49:00 – The Spiral of Sensitivity → Failure → Shame 51:00 – The Shirt Tag Feels Like Fire – Don’t Yell About Davening