Producing Healthy Children - JEWISH INTIMACY (21)
The Ramban's Iggeret HaKodesh Is now unveiling the secret of producing Healthy Children. After showing us the significance of the physical location and temperature on the body, the holy Ramban will now let us know what kind of outcome we will have and why some of us are the way we are. Most importantly, what can we do about it today. “Iggeret HaKodesh” The Holy Letter of the Ramban: https://amzn.to/429g1tc As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases. Please Donate At: http://www.BHPesach.org http://www.BHTorah.org http://www.BeEzratHaShem.org 0:00:00 Introduction 0:07:15 Spiritual—Physical (Ramban) 0:08:34 Problem child 0:10:05 Demeanors: no excuse, change possible 0:11:45 Sick children: Tests, high/low level neshamot 0:13:54 Kavod HaRav's high-level neshamah (kabbalist informed mother) 0:15:01 Klausenberger Rebbe: Super-charged neshamah 0:17:13 Sick children: Tests, high/low level neshamot (cont.) 0:18:39 Neshamot tuned differently 0:19:18 Tikkun in this world: Life of suffering, Autism: Prophetic cases 0:22:25 Improving future generations (ungrateful child) 0:23:30 Angry or stingy as a child: Why? 0:23:57 Bed aligned north-south: male children reward (Ber. 5b to Ps. 17 v.14) 0:24:32 Bed aligned west-east forbidden (Shulchan Aruch, O.C. 3) 0:24:42 Ramban disagrees with Rashi: Physical vs Mystical 0:25:14 Problem child—hot seed (Ramban) 0:26:12 Highly recommended teaching: Risk of not listening 0:26:49 Certain people's children: Sage lineage 0:28:05 Prepared vs Unprepared: Outcome 0:28:57 Cold seed: Naive-fool (Ramban) (Known to past Torah scholars) 0:30:35 Degradation of the generations: Physical Nature 0:31:17 Super-Strong Sage 0:32:04 Shepherd with Super-Sight 0:33:19 Tall Levi Tribe & Aron Hakodesh 0:36:50 Ethical development: Removing preconceptions 0:37:20 Cold seed: Naive-fool (cont.) 0:38:42 Hot seed: Easy to anger 0:40:20 Cold Seed vs Hot seed 0:42:34 Dry brain: better memory vs Wet brain: sharper analysis, worse memory 0:43:37 Dry brain: Mt. Sinai vs Wet brain: uprooter of mountains 0:44:51 Rav Yosef: Mt. Sinai vs. Rabbah: uprooter of mountains 0:45:10 Title Inflation (Today's Perception) 0:49:57 Naive-fool or hot-tempered: Rarely both 0:51:17 LGBTQB shooters 0:52:11 Nebuchadnezzar's Kingdom: Strongest until Messiah (Daniel interpreted dream) 0:54:00 Nebuchadnezzar the homosexual rapist (Lust & Wasting Seed) 0:58:04 Promiscuity—homosexuality 0:59:36 Bestiality—erectile cancer 1:01:12 There is nothing new under the sun (Koheles 1:9) 1:01:45 Attaining holiness vs risk of not attaining holiness (Desire Control) 1:02:39 Overcome addiction: you don't need, you desire 1:03:46 Not attaining holiness: Impact on Marriage & Children 1:05:07 Education upside & Surroundings 1:06:13 Naive fool or hot-tempered: Rarely both (cont.) 1:06:30 Pros: Cold Seed vs Hot Seed 1:07:03 R. Elyashiv's goal for one's life: Stay out of conversation vs Today's opposite 1:09:57 Pros: Cold Seed 1:10:39 News 1:14:13 Cons: Hot seed 1:18:00 Pros: Hot seed 1:19:28 Demeanor & Choice: good or bad 1:19:56 Optimal start: drop balanced between hot & cold (Ber. 31b to I Sam. 1 v.11) 1:24:01 Best thing for us (Serve Hashem in peace) 1:25:03 Request salvation without specific conditions (Moed Katan 18b) 1:26:49 Why have kids? (More ways to serve Hashem) 1:29:20 Channah's Perfect Request to Hashem (Ramban) 1:30:02 Wasted blessings (i.e., abilities) 1:33:11 Baal Teshuva greater than FFB (R. Akiva's Holiness) 1:35:24 The Demented Baal Teshuvah 1:36:56 Deficient start, yet achieved Greatness: R. Moshe Schick, R. Volozhin, Rambam 1:41:29 Becoming a Talmud Chacham: Embrace gift, avoid attention to attain learning (Pri Megadim) 1:44:37 Yearning for Attention can ruin blessings and life overall 1:45:05 Women yearning for attention: arrogance, recall monkey-like lust 1:52:02 Men yearning for attention: arrogance, attract leeches 1:53:42 Conclusion 1:55:45 BHPesach Donate Join this channel to get access to perks: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCi-fAdFBv83gUzBgKm3PAyw/join #children #healthy #pesach #Torah #Jewish #RabbiYaronReuven