The Two Parenting Extremes That Ruin Children #Parenting #RaisingKids #JewishWisdom #Torah # #shorts

Modern parenting keeps missing the mark. Parents swing between two extremes: Best friends. Or dictators. Both damage a child. Chazal gave the blueprint centuries ago: שמאל דוחה וימין מקרבת Push away with one hand. Pull close with the other. Always “yes” isn’t love. It’s abandonment dressed as kindness. Always “no” isn’t strength. It’s fear dressed as control. The Torah model is simple: You are not equals, but you are close. You lead without crushing. You love without surrendering. Firm voice. Soft eyes. Boundaries with attachment. A parent who can’t say “no” loses their child. A parent who can’t say “yes” loses their soul. The Torah way lets you keep both. ✨ Spread the light → https://rivnitz.com/light